The religious life of millions of good, well-meaning people is what sociological researchers often call "cultural" or "nominal" Christianity. For a lot of folks, religion is a background setting, like a radio playing softly in the next room. It’s part of their identity and heritage, brought out for the big milestones—marriages, funerals, maybe Christmas or Easter—and otherwise tucked neatly into the closet. God is an acknowledged fact of the universe, but not necessarily a daily conversational partner. It’s a passive belief structure: I believe, therefore I’m fine.
Then there is the lived, covenantal restoration faith of The Church. In that space, faith isn't a passive background setting; it's the lens through which every single piece of daily life is filtered.
When your faith is tied to priesthood ordinances, daily family and personal prayer, scriptural study, personal revelation, and the understanding of eternal progression, it stops being a "church you attend" and becomes an entire way of existing. The spiritual world isn't just something that happens after you die; the veil is thin, and the communication between here and there is meant to be active, practical, and constant.
It makes complete sense why that level of immersion looks "out there" or intense to someone who views faith as a weekend tradition. To someone who prays only in formal, scripted settings, the idea of sitting down and having a genuine two-way dialogue with Heavenly Father—where you quiet your mind and actually listen for promptings or subtle thoughts—sounds like something from another realm. But to someone who lives in the restored Gospel, those subtle promptings are just the daily language of the Spirit. It's as natural as checking the weather before you step outside.
Certainly, there are others whose lives are centered on their religion; Judaism, Islam, many of the Evangelical's. but the total opposite is also true. One of the most prevalent "religions" of today, at least in the United States, is secularism.
Whether you look at it through demographics or philosophy, secularism has quickly become the defining "faith" of the modern Western world. In sociology, researchers often talk about the rapid rise of the "Nones"—people who answer "None of the above" when asked about their religious affiliation. In the United States, that group has grown to nearly 30% of the population, and among younger demographics, it’s closer to 40%.
Calling secularism a "religion" is spot-on in terms of how it functions. Even when people throw out traditional creeds, the human brain still craves a framework to understand right and wrong, purpose and community. Secularism just replaces traditional religious structures with its own set of dogmas, rituals, and "holy texts":
1. The Secular "Creed". Instead of revelation or ancient scriptures, secularism treats human reason, personal emotion, scientific consensus, or current cultural norms as the ultimate authority. The core doctrine usually boils down to: "Live your truth, do what makes you happy, and don't tell anyone else how to live." It sounds peaceful on the surface, but it creates a worldview where truth is completely relative—whatever feels right to the individual becomes their absolute law.
2. Secular "Excommunication" and Orthodoxy. People often think secularism is neutral, but it isn't. It has its own strict boundaries of what is "acceptable" to believe. If someone holds traditional, covenantal, or scriptural views on family, morality, or the nature of God, the secular culture doesn't just disagree—it often labels those views as dangerous, outdated, or bigoted. In that sense, secularism has its own version of "heresy" and its own ways of ostracizing those who don't conform to the current cultural script.
3. The Shift in What is "Sacred". In a covenant life, family, temple ordinances, priesthood power, and personal revelation are sacred. In a secular world, the individual becomes sacred. Self-fulfillment, career success, independence, and personal comfort take the place of sacrifice, duty, and devotion to God. The "sabbath" becomes sleeping in or shopping; "prayer" becomes self-care or scrolling; "faith" becomes trusting in technology, money, or political solutions.
The Danger of the "Default" Setting. What makes this attitude so common today is that secularism is the default background radiation of modern culture. You don't have to study secularism to adopt it. You just have to watch television, scroll through social media, go through the public school system, or work in a modern corporate setting. It’s in the air we breathe. If a family doesn't actively build a deliberate, covenantal rhythm—with prayer, scripture study, and a real relationship with Heavenly Father—the secular current will naturally carry them away without them even realizing it moved.
Since Joann got sick, I started watching far too much TV; mostly old guy shows but some more modern. There's a show called "The Good Wife". It's a lawyer show and the primary character is Alicia. She's a successful lawyer, very pragmatic and a declared atheist. Her Daughter, Grace, is experimenting with Christianity, mostly with what she can "learn" from social media. Anyway, Grace asks her mother; "Why do you hate Jesus?" Alicia's reply is such a great example of the feelings of what seems like a major portion of our society: "I don't hate Jesus. He's just someone who lived a long time ago and has no effect on my life."
A more recent show that resonated with me is "The Madison". The Kurt Russel character dies tragically in the first episode. He's on a fishing trip to Montana. His family is all in New York City, very wealthy, successful and popular in their circles. When the wife; Stacy, and adult daughters come out to Montana to make arrangements, the culture clash is the focus. But what really stood out to me was the complete cluelessness of the family in how to process the death of their Husband/Father. They have no religious or spiritual background from which to draw. Since I've been through something similar, I know what they are feeling and the lack of any spiritual foundation at all must be devastating! With all of their wealth and position, when the devastating accident happens, they really have nowhere to turn, except to another secular medium, the Psychologist.
In a show like The Madison, you see people who have every material shield imaginable—wealth, social status, influence, and the finest resources money can buy. In the easy seasons of life, those things create a convincing illusion of complete control and self-sufficiency. You don't feel a daily need for Heavenly Father or a covenant anchor because the bank account, the career, and the high-status lifestyle keep the storm at arm's length. But when tragedy strikes—the kind of sudden, shattering loss that strips away all the surface noise—that illusion vanishes instantly.
Where does a purely secular worldview send a person when their soul is torn open? It sends them to the only tools it has left: clinical analysis, coping mechanisms, and professional processing. Therapy and psychology certainly have their place for mental and emotional health, but as a substitute for the Divine, they hit a hard wall. A psychologist can help you navigate trauma responses or process grief, but they cannot grant you personal revelation. They cannot give you a Priesthood blessing of comfort, they cannot promise you eternal family ties, and they cannot speak to you with the authority of the Spirit to say, "Everything will be OK. You'll understand in time."
A secular framework can help you manage the pain, but it cannot give the pain meaning, nor can it promise a real, tangible reunion beyond the veil.
When a person’s whole world is built on the horizontal plane—just this life, this society, and human wisdom—a devastating loss leaves them utterly stranded. They are forced to try to repair a spiritual wound using purely mortal tools.
Another one..."After Life", with Ricky Gervais. He is a serious atheist, dealing with the cancer death of his wife.
All these shows have something in common. The writers have managed to get across the idea that religion and spirituality are for the stupid. Atheism isn't displayed as a mistake but as the only logical and reasonable viewpoint.
I'm on a Facebook group for men who have lost their spouse. Reading the posts of guys who have no real clue about what death really means is heartbreaking. Sometimes I post messages of hope for them but I always have to preface my post with "Religiosity Warning" so I don't get guys whining about my "preaching" something for which they have complete contempt.
Another factor for me on the FB group is reading posts of guys from other Christian faiths and realizing that they are taught so little about the realities of life, death, the spirit world and immortality. We are so lucky to have modern or recent revelation that gives us so much more knowledge about what our whole mortality and then eternal life are about.
Again looking at the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints being a "peculiar people". A non-member friend recently asked me if I am spiritual or religious. My reply was..."Yes". We are both. The restored Gospel teaches us the spiritual basis for everything we do. "Think Celestial" is great counsel, given us by our recent Prophet, Russell M. Nelson. But we also are "religious" in that we know of the earthly laws and ordinances which need to be performed and we are guided by a specified doctrine and commandments. So, yes. We are both spiritual and religious.
I think I finally understand why my ancestors walked across the plains to the unknown valleys of Utah. I get why they uprooted themselves from Utah and went north to Idaho when called so to do. I don't know that I really understood those actions as well before.
Yes. We are a "Peculiar people".
The restored Gospel stands apart from nearly all of mainstream Christianity not just in small details, but in its fundamental understanding of God's active presence on the earth today. What most of the Christian world considers historical artifacts—things that ended with the New Testament—we believe are alive, active, and essential to daily life.
Here are the key doctrines, practices, and spiritual realities that set the restored Church apart:
### 1. Modern Revelation and Open Canon
* **Living Prophets and Apostles:** The belief that Jesus Christ actively guides His Church today through a living prophet and twelve apostles who hold the same authority as Peter, James, and John. To most denominations, prophecy ended with the Bible; to us, God speaks as clearly today as He did anciently.
* **Open Canon:** The conviction that the word of God is not closed. We treasure the Bible, but we also have the Book of Mormon, the Doctrine and Covenants, and the Pearl of Great Price—along with ongoing revelation delivered at General Conference.
### 2. Priesthood Authority and Power
* **Literal Divine Lineage:** The belief that priesthood is not a degree earned at a seminary or a profession chosen by an individual, but the literal power and authority of God delegated to man, restored directly by resurrected beings (John the Baptist, Peter, James, and John).
* **Priesthood Actions in the Home:** Worthy men—husbands, fathers, brothers, and young men—holding this authority to give blessings of health and comfort, dedicate graves, administer the sacrament, and perform baptisms right within their own families.
### 3. Personal Revelation and the Light of Christ
* **Two-Way Personal Revelation:** The expectation that every member—man, woman, and child—can receive direct, personal promptings, insights, and answers to prayer for their own lives and responsibilities.
* **The Holy Ghost as a Constant Companion:** Received by the laying on of hands after baptism, providing an actual spiritual shield and constant quiet whisper rather than just a fleeting emotional feeling.
### 4. The True Nature of God and the Premortal Existence
* **The Embodied Godhead:** Rejection of the post-biblical Trinity (creeds describing God as an incorporeal, spirit-essence without body or parts). We know God the Father and Jesus Christ are two distinct, glorified beings with physical bodies of flesh and bone, perfectly unified in purpose.
* **Premortal Life:** The knowledge that we existed as spirit sons and daughters of Heavenly Father before coming to this earth, that this life is a purposeful school (a probation), and that we came here with individual identity and agency.
### 5. Eternal Families and Temple Ordinances
* **Eternal Marriage and Family Ties:** The belief that marriage and family relationships sealed by priesthood authority persist beyond the grave, rather than ending at "until death do you part."
* **Vicarious Work for the Dead:** Temple baptisms and ordinances performed on behalf of those who died without hearing the Gospel, demonstrating God's perfect justice and boundless mercy for all His children throughout history.
### 6. The Plan of Salvation and Eternal Progression
* **Degrees of Glory:** A complete departure from the binary "heaven vs. hellfire" model. We understand the afterlife consists of the Celestial, Terrestrial, and Telestial kingdoms, tailored to how individuals received truth and kept covenants.
* **Eternal Progression (Deification):** The profound truth that we are literal offspring of God with the potential, through the Atonement of Jesus Christ and covenant faithfulness, to grow to become like our Heavenly Parents.
### 7. The Restored Law of Health and Temporal Living
* **The Word of Wisdom:** A specific, revealed health code given in 1833 prohibiting alcohol, tobacco, coffee, tea, and harmful substances, treating the mortal body as a holy temple for the Spirit.
* **A Lay Ministry:** The Church is run entirely by members called to serve without financial compensation—bishops, teachers, stake presidents, and organists—creating a culture where everyone works side by side in the kingdom.
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For most non-members, these concepts aren't just unfamiliar; they redefine what religion actually is. To them, faith is often a set of moral beliefs and a weekly service. To a covenant-keeping Latter-day Saint, it is an active, day-to-day partnership with the Heavens.
Where does a purely secular worldview send a person when their soul is torn open? It sends them to the only tools it has left: clinical analysis, coping mechanisms, and professional processing. Therapy and psychology certainly have their place for mental and emotional health, but as a substitute for the Divine, they hit a hard wall. A psychologist can help you navigate trauma responses or process grief, but they cannot grant you personal revelation. They cannot give you a Priesthood blessing of comfort, they cannot promise you eternal family ties, and they cannot speak to you with the authority of the Spirit to say, "Everything will be OK. You'll understand in time."
A secular framework can help you manage the pain, but it cannot give the pain meaning, nor can it promise a real, tangible reunion beyond the veil.
When a person’s whole world is built on the horizontal plane—just this life, this society, and human wisdom—a devastating loss leaves them utterly stranded. They are forced to try to repair a spiritual wound using purely mortal tools.
Another one..."After Life", with Ricky Gervais. He is a serious atheist, dealing with the cancer death of his wife.
All these shows have something in common. The writers have managed to get across the idea that religion and spirituality are for the stupid. Atheism isn't displayed as a mistake but as the only logical and reasonable viewpoint.
I'm on a Facebook group for men who have lost their spouse. Reading the posts of guys who have no real clue about what death really means is heartbreaking. Sometimes I post messages of hope for them but I always have to preface my post with "Religiosity Warning" so I don't get guys whining about my "preaching" something for which they have complete contempt.
Another factor for me on the FB group is reading posts of guys from other Christian faiths and realizing that they are taught so little about the realities of life, death, the spirit world and immortality. We are so lucky to have modern or recent revelation that gives us so much more knowledge about what our whole mortality and then eternal life are about.
Again looking at the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints being a "peculiar people". A non-member friend recently asked me if I am spiritual or religious. My reply was..."Yes". We are both. The restored Gospel teaches us the spiritual basis for everything we do. "Think Celestial" is great counsel, given us by our recent Prophet, Russell M. Nelson. But we also are "religious" in that we know of the earthly laws and ordinances which need to be performed and we are guided by a specified doctrine and commandments. So, yes. We are both spiritual and religious.
I think I finally understand why my ancestors walked across the plains to the unknown valleys of Utah. I get why they uprooted themselves from Utah and went north to Idaho when called so to do. I don't know that I really understood those actions as well before.
Yes. We are a "Peculiar people".
The restored Gospel stands apart from nearly all of mainstream Christianity not just in small details, but in its fundamental understanding of God's active presence on the earth today. What most of the Christian world considers historical artifacts—things that ended with the New Testament—we believe are alive, active, and essential to daily life.
Here are the key doctrines, practices, and spiritual realities that set the restored Church apart:
### 1. Modern Revelation and Open Canon
* **Living Prophets and Apostles:** The belief that Jesus Christ actively guides His Church today through a living prophet and twelve apostles who hold the same authority as Peter, James, and John. To most denominations, prophecy ended with the Bible; to us, God speaks as clearly today as He did anciently.
* **Open Canon:** The conviction that the word of God is not closed. We treasure the Bible, but we also have the Book of Mormon, the Doctrine and Covenants, and the Pearl of Great Price—along with ongoing revelation delivered at General Conference.
### 2. Priesthood Authority and Power
* **Literal Divine Lineage:** The belief that priesthood is not a degree earned at a seminary or a profession chosen by an individual, but the literal power and authority of God delegated to man, restored directly by resurrected beings (John the Baptist, Peter, James, and John).
* **Priesthood Actions in the Home:** Worthy men—husbands, fathers, brothers, and young men—holding this authority to give blessings of health and comfort, dedicate graves, administer the sacrament, and perform baptisms right within their own families.
### 3. Personal Revelation and the Light of Christ
* **Two-Way Personal Revelation:** The expectation that every member—man, woman, and child—can receive direct, personal promptings, insights, and answers to prayer for their own lives and responsibilities.
* **The Holy Ghost as a Constant Companion:** Received by the laying on of hands after baptism, providing an actual spiritual shield and constant quiet whisper rather than just a fleeting emotional feeling.
### 4. The True Nature of God and the Premortal Existence
* **The Embodied Godhead:** Rejection of the post-biblical Trinity (creeds describing God as an incorporeal, spirit-essence without body or parts). We know God the Father and Jesus Christ are two distinct, glorified beings with physical bodies of flesh and bone, perfectly unified in purpose.
* **Premortal Life:** The knowledge that we existed as spirit sons and daughters of Heavenly Father before coming to this earth, that this life is a purposeful school (a probation), and that we came here with individual identity and agency.
### 5. Eternal Families and Temple Ordinances
* **Eternal Marriage and Family Ties:** The belief that marriage and family relationships sealed by priesthood authority persist beyond the grave, rather than ending at "until death do you part."
* **Vicarious Work for the Dead:** Temple baptisms and ordinances performed on behalf of those who died without hearing the Gospel, demonstrating God's perfect justice and boundless mercy for all His children throughout history.
### 6. The Plan of Salvation and Eternal Progression
* **Degrees of Glory:** A complete departure from the binary "heaven vs. hellfire" model. We understand the afterlife consists of the Celestial, Terrestrial, and Telestial kingdoms, tailored to how individuals received truth and kept covenants.
* **Eternal Progression (Deification):** The profound truth that we are literal offspring of God with the potential, through the Atonement of Jesus Christ and covenant faithfulness, to grow to become like our Heavenly Parents.
### 7. The Restored Law of Health and Temporal Living
* **The Word of Wisdom:** A specific, revealed health code given in 1833 prohibiting alcohol, tobacco, coffee, tea, and harmful substances, treating the mortal body as a holy temple for the Spirit.
* **A Lay Ministry:** The Church is run entirely by members called to serve without financial compensation—bishops, teachers, stake presidents, and organists—creating a culture where everyone works side by side in the kingdom.
---
For most non-members, these concepts aren't just unfamiliar; they redefine what religion actually is. To them, faith is often a set of moral beliefs and a weekly service. To a covenant-keeping Latter-day Saint, it is an active, day-to-day partnership with the Heavens.
God, the Father and His Son, Jesus Christ exist and live today.
God loves us more than mortal words can describe. Everything He does is based on His indescribable love for each of us.
There is a Spirit world. A world "beyond the veil".
Prayers are two way communication. God hears and answers our prayers.
This Church was restored by a true Prophet of God, Joseph Smith; and is currently led by a true Prophet of God today; Dallin Oaks.
The Book of Mormon was translated and brought to the world just as Joseph Smith and the other witnesses described. It is a true testament of the Lord Jesus Christ and is a companion to and supporter of the Holy Bible. Other scriptures that have been provided are also the word of God, including the Pearl of Great Price and the Doctrine and Covenants.
The principles, ordinances and doctrines practiced and taught by the Church are true and correct.
Families can be together Forever
Christ's Atonement and the resurrection are for everyone who has ever lived or will ever live on the earth.
We are literal Spirit Children of our Heavenly Father and we have existed for an untold eternity and will continue so to do. We were part of a Heavenly Council which devised the Plan of Happiness and we came to the earth to experience and learn from mortality. When we die, we return to the Spirit World where we rest, continue to learn and teach while we await the reuniting of our Spirit and our Body.
God the Father, His Son, Jesus Christ and the Holy Ghost are three distinct individuals. Although the Holy Ghost has just a Spirit body, Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ have glorified bodies of flesh and bone.
God loves us more than mortal words can describe. Everything He does is based on His indescribable love for each of us.
There is a Spirit world. A world "beyond the veil".
Prayers are two way communication. God hears and answers our prayers.
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints is the only true Church of Jesus Christ on the Earth. It is the Church that Jesus organized and established, but that fell away through apostasy. The Lord restored it through Joseph Smith. Thus restoring Christ's doctrines and showing us the way that we can return to the presence of our Father in Heaven. Jesus Christ is the true Head of this Church.
This Church was restored by a true Prophet of God, Joseph Smith; and is currently led by a true Prophet of God today; Dallin Oaks.
The Book of Mormon was translated and brought to the world just as Joseph Smith and the other witnesses described. It is a true testament of the Lord Jesus Christ and is a companion to and supporter of the Holy Bible. Other scriptures that have been provided are also the word of God, including the Pearl of Great Price and the Doctrine and Covenants.
The principles, ordinances and doctrines practiced and taught by the Church are true and correct.
Families can be together Forever
Christ's Atonement and the resurrection are for everyone who has ever lived or will ever live on the earth.
We are literal Spirit Children of our Heavenly Father and we have existed for an untold eternity and will continue so to do. We were part of a Heavenly Council which devised the Plan of Happiness and we came to the earth to experience and learn from mortality. When we die, we return to the Spirit World where we rest, continue to learn and teach while we await the reuniting of our Spirit and our Body.
God the Father, His Son, Jesus Christ and the Holy Ghost are three distinct individuals. Although the Holy Ghost has just a Spirit body, Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ have glorified bodies of flesh and bone.
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